Who is the winner?

by Bara December 05 | 2014

Who is the winner?

We all know the people who are always late. Maybe you’re that person. You often hear the same types of excuses for lateness. For example, “things got complicated” or “something came up and I couldn’t make it” or “my day just went so quickly because I had so much to do”. Maybe you’ve heard these types of excuses before (or used them yourself)?

These people have not yet discovered the truth. They really believe that what they say is true; that something is not allowing them to be on time, rather than it being about personal choices. The truth is that we are directing our life and everything that happens is because of the decisions we make. It’s often about how much we’re friends with our subconscious.

A simple example: if I know my day is going to be full and busy, I will run from one thing to the other; meetings, work, chores etc. We always choose the way we spend the day. If you look back you hate yourself for planning the day this way. But now you feel obliged to do all things you’ve scheduled. Before you know it you’re delayed and you quickly get behind on your schedule. And then when you’re late to meet people later in the day you’re surprised when they are angry and frustrated.

It’s a chain of how we are strong and the universe tests us to see if we’re really hold the steering wheel, or if we let circumstances direct our lives. That is an example of how we are able to influence everything.

The first step is to think positively and then you’re already half way to success. Lets believe that I will have a nice day and feel joy and so will the people who surround me. The second part is about taking action. You get some people who are naïve and believe God will just ring their doorbell and bring success. And they can just sit back their entire life and not work for it.

No, no no! Action is essential.

So what can I do then? Well, we need to learn how to be creative and clear about our priorities. It’s quit simple. Two options: I can pretend that the day has 30 hours and fill up 20 hours with things I “have to do”. And I can do that every month or for years and then I can blame the “circumstances” for my health situation. Or I can be surprised that after I have stopped this cycle, and finally have time to relax and regenerate at home, that it’s too late and I’m sick and alone.

The second option is say, “fuck it” and choose things that could seem important but are not. Once I don’t need to fight I become the winner of my time. Fighting with time is something very special. People love it! How we can fight something that’s abstract – it’s like fighting with air. You can punch the air but your hand will hit yourself in the end.

This is just an example of the illusion we live in. We think we don’t have time or we have it fight with it. If you’re interested in this topic and you feel like this bubble also covers your life, then you may find the movie ‘Click’ even more convincing.

I hope it inspires you! Have a beautiful day my dear.

Bara with love