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What is Tantra?

by Bara December 12 | 2014

What is Tantra?

I’m hearing this question a lot. When I tell people about my job they are very curious about what Tantra actually means.

Their first reaction is that it has something to do with sex. Sure, it’s partly about sex (but hey, what isn’t?). I think everything in the world is about sex in one-way or another. It’s thanks to sex that we’re born and that we can have a passion for life.

So what is Tantra, if it’s not just sex? The word itself translates as ‘consciousness’. Tantric practice gives us the tools we need to become more conscious and teaches us how to connect to the energies within our body. In fact, it’s the way to move from only a sexual or platonic connection to the wholeness of being, to a complete experience. And sex is transformed into something bigger.

For me it’s a way to balance myself and to heal, and also to connect with my lover on a deeper level.

Learning magical sexual secrets is a part of it. But Tantra includes everything that happens in our life. It’s about our attitude, the way we look at things. Becoming more conscious means being clearer about your needs and desires, your limits and your goals. It means starting to use all your potential (because we usually don’t use more than 10% of it).

And as we’re slowly learning and walking the spiritual path we become more sensitive and begin to be our real self. So we lose the old default life setting that we were given by our parents, government, teachers and so on. Other people’s inputs and the institutions we study or work in often disconnect us from our greater potential, from our authentic selves.

So Tantra can help us to reconnect and live the way we had only previously dreamed about. Yes everything is possible; we just need to take action.

The potential is in everyone! You included.

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What is Tantra?
For me, Tantra is the practice of a philosophy of unconditional love towards everyone that can lead, through sexuality to ecstatically transcendent spirituality. The path to transcendence is not easy, however, because the Ego and the physical aspects of sexuality create barriers to spiritual fulfilment that can only be overcome through surrendering expectations to the actual lived experience of Tantra.

Who is the winner?

by Bara December 05 | 2014

Who is the winner?

We all know the people who are always late. Maybe you’re that person. You often hear the same types of excuses for lateness. For example, “things got complicated” or “something came up and I couldn’t make it” or “my day just went so quickly because I had so much to do”. Maybe you’ve heard these types of excuses before (or used them yourself)?

These people have not yet discovered the truth. They really believe that what they say is true; that something is not allowing them to be on time, rather than it being about personal choices. The truth is that we are directing our life and everything that happens is because of the decisions we make. It’s often about how much we’re friends with our subconscious.

A simple example: if I know my day is going to be full and busy, I will run from one thing to the other; meetings, work, chores etc. We always choose the way we spend the day. If you look back you hate yourself for planning the day this way. But now you feel obliged to do all things you’ve scheduled. Before you know it you’re delayed and you quickly get behind on your schedule. And then when you’re late to meet people later in the day you’re surprised when they are angry and frustrated.

It’s a chain of how we are strong and the universe tests us to see if we’re really hold the steering wheel, or if we let circumstances direct our lives. That is an example of how we are able to influence everything.

The first step is to think positively and then you’re already half way to success. Lets believe that I will have a nice day and feel joy and so will the people who surround me. The second part is about taking action. You get some people who are naïve and believe God will just ring their doorbell and bring success. And they can just sit back their entire life and not work for it.

No, no no! Action is essential.

So what can I do then? Well, we need to learn how to be creative and clear about our priorities. It’s quit simple. Two options: I can pretend that the day has 30 hours and fill up 20 hours with things I “have to do”. And I can do that every month or for years and then I can blame the “circumstances” for my health situation. Or I can be surprised that after I have stopped this cycle, and finally have time to relax and regenerate at home, that it’s too late and I’m sick and alone.

The second option is say, “fuck it” and choose things that could seem important but are not. Once I don’t need to fight I become the winner of my time. Fighting with time is something very special. People love it! How we can fight something that’s abstract – it’s like fighting with air. You can punch the air but your hand will hit yourself in the end.

This is just an example of the illusion we live in. We think we don’t have time or we have it fight with it. If you’re interested in this topic and you feel like this bubble also covers your life, then you may find the movie ‘Click’ even more convincing.

I hope it inspires you! Have a beautiful day my dear.

Bara with love

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Hello Bara! Good sunday. Is always beatiful read your things in the blog. After your video "Awekening the senses" no more video, when we can see your art in tantra massages again?

You can meet me online

by Bara December 03 | 2014

You can meet me online

Hegre-Art members have the chance to meet me online on our live cam service. I can imagine that for many people, especially men, using the live cam service may be confusing. You’re often asking me what you actually do on there. And what you can expect when you choose to have a private chat with me?

Your confusion is a little bit justified because my online time is really different to the other performers. What I’m offering is to discuss the sexual topic that you’re most interested in; this could be relationships, sexuality, sexual technique – whatever you like. We can have a private chat where we share more intimate things and go deeper into your chosen topic.

Sometimes I’m giving you tips on how to become more sensitive and enjoy intense orgasms, or showing penis massage techniques or how to massage a woman’s breasts the way she’ll never forget. We can discuss whatever sexual and life topic you want to look at more closely and make clearer.

I’m here especially for those of you who are interested in “something more” and if I say “more” I mean another step, another way to experience life and sex. It’s about what you’re bringing to the session from within you. I’m waiting for your input and we can follow any path you feel compelled to walk down. I have very nice connection with a few of you already, thanks to the time we spend together privately – it’s very precious.

There is no obvious way to name or categorise this session or our meeting because it’s not only psychotherapy, or just sharing intimacy, or only friendly chat – it’s a cocktail of those three main attributes. And all three are based on mutual respect and trust.

We have many options for the meeting. The usual session in the temple in Sitges takes two or three hours and there is reason for that. We need the time to first get relaxed and build our connection. I don’t want you to buy credits for a two hour online session, but just please don’t expect the magic to happen in just ten minutes. I suggest at least 20 minutes, ideally longer.

Remember everything depends on your real intention. You can drink instant coffee in two minutes. Or you can go to a special Italian cafe to have a whole experience: the atmosphere, the smell and the taste of real coffee. And it likely takes longer than two minutes.

And someone will drink instant coffee all their life and never try to invest the time into the new experience of real coffee, and this is fine also. Life is the question of our choice.

Everyone is invited on free chat to get a clearer idea about me and than you can schedule your private session.

And if I’m free at that moment and you’re also ready, then that’s perfect; we can get started right away.

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