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No penetrative sex can feel like your cells making love

I can imagine that some of you are thinking, “Wow, no penetration and no friction, what’s the point then? But just remember that moment when you first kissed your beloved and there was electricity between you both for a few seconds or minutes. That’s actually an orgasmic experience connecting you with the whole universe.

And did you think that you wanted to keep this feeling for as long as possible? Maybe you’ve started to think this feeling has disappeared? Or maybe it comes back again when you did not expect it.

What I’m talking about is the moment when you look into someone’s eyes, or while you’re gently been stroked, and the cells in each of your start to recognize each other.

What if we can develop this ability and deliberately surrender to soft electricity? Once there is just electricity, the person becomes the electricity – as effortless and thoughtless as electricity. And what if this can last for hours like one long orgasmic wave? Sometimes it’ll be intense. Other times it’ll be so soft that you almost don’t recognize it. But the cells recognize each other and give attention to the cells of your beloved.

Thousands of cells make love to each other and you can be present in it. You don’t do much; it’s almost effortless – you just have the opportunity to observe this amazing piece of art being created.

It’s like when you listen to amazing music and it penetrates your body and you feel a tingle. For a moment you are in harmony with that music, you flow with it, and it becomes a part of you.

How much you would pay to experience this at least once? Thank god it’s not an item you have to buy in a shop. What if you have it already and you just need to find the source of endless electricity within you and from time to time meet someone who helps to remind you where it is and how to open it?

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For this to happen, both of the partners need to be harmoniously 'fully in the moment' with each other as they embrace. (I gather that the 'yab-yum' position is best for this practice).

Sacred Yoni, who is she?

by Bara January 18 | 2015

Sacred Yoni, who is she?

One thing is clear she’s very beautiful and she has great power, I would say she is one of the most powerful things in the world.

Yoni is a sacred Sanskrit word and means vagina. She has the power to be the gateway to creating new life and also has the power to destroy everything. So it is better to behave towards her with respect and appreciation for all she is providing us.

We all came through her and we come back to her to ask for refreshing energy. She is able to flood men with ecstatic energy when she is worshiped the sacred way.

With all this in mind, it’s better to ask what you can do for her, not what she can do for you.

You may never have thought this way before. How can we do the yoni worship? It’s a little ritual that may last a few minutes or several hours, whatever you choose. If you’re a man you can practice with your partner, or with a picture or a statue. If you’re a woman, of course, you have everything you need with you.

What makes the difference is your intention, your approach. You should come with esteem and simply offer your attention to her. For those of you who would like to connect with this powerful energy of creating and destructing, of softness and passion, of receptivity and creativity, here is a tip for you.

The ritual:

Find a nice comfortable, intimate and quiet place where you can be with your partner or the symbol of a yoni or with your own yoni. Do everything necessary to make yourself relaxed and connected with yourself (you might include candles, music and incense).

Close your eyes, rub your hands together a few times to make a little bit of heat between them. You may feel some sensation, so take your time to put all your focus on deep breathing and on the skin of your palms.

While you’re breathing deep it is the time to whisper your prayer, a sentence of the great fullness that you feel for her. Find at least one thing that you want to thank her for. It needs to be true for you. Your prayer is coming from your heart. For example, “Thank you divine mother that I could be born with your support”. Or whatever feels right for you. But you need to have nonsexual attitude.

Remember your intention is to worship the yoni. You don’t want to get anything; you’re giving your thanks for all she is doing for you in your life.

When you’re ready and fully present, slowly put your relaxed hand on your yoni – without any movement. Then breathe deeply and remember your worshipping sentence and focus on the connection between you and the sacred yoni. It’s up to you how long you keep your focus and your hand there.

When you feel you have worshipped her the best way you could, slowly and with full awareness remove your hand. Connect your hands in Namaste (palms pressed together as if in prayer) close to your heart.

This is the end of the ritual, so if you’re with your partner it means you can stay together but you shouldn’t start any sexual play or chat. Your woman can also finish with Namaste as thanks for the ritual and that is it.

If you decide to practice this ritual it’s possible for the first time you won’t feel so much. But I assure you each time it will be different and probably more intense. In time you may start to feel a real connection to the mother earth, to feminine fire energy and also to feminine angels’ energy and intuition.

And your experience of lovemaking will never be the same again.

Namaste,
Bara

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A woman is like an ocean

by Bara January 09 | 2015

A woman is like an ocean

Men often think they need to be responsible for the result during lovemaking. And that’s why they try to do a lot more than is actually needed.

My friend inspired me when he said, “A woman is like an ocean and we can only enjoy the waves when they’re present. When those waves are absent, it doesn’t matter how good a surfer you are”.

In this moment I understood the message and how true it is for me. Women have an incredible quality to flood men with love and passion, and the man’s part is to learn to be ready for both the big waves and sometimes the little ones.

Because a cyclical woman may be still like a lake, and in the next second wild like the ocean under a storm. Rather than trying to change this fact, men can discover real femininity as it is. Yes, sometimes the wave may put you down, but then again, nobody succeeds without taking a risk.

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